Out: men and women to live differently

Out: men and women to live differently

  When facing a difficult breakup, you always wonder if the other person has provided us. A very natural reaction, which is much more complex to analyze than you might think. The Binghamton University in the United States and the London College have studied the issue and ultimately determined that it would be good men who suffer most lasting separation. The findings of their study were published in the journal Evolutionary Behavioral Sciences.

  Often underestimated by others, the pain you feel when a break is faces can be truly devastating. For the psychologist Lisa Letessier, 50% of listed suicide attempts are also associated with this unique pattern. And contrary to popular belief, women are therefore more equipped to face this kind of situation. With a panel of 5,705 volunteers from 96 different countries, researchers were able to assess the emotional and physical pain (on a scale of 1 to 10) of both sexes (all sexual orientations).

Women and pain

  If the moral pain is quite similar among women and men (6.84 against 6.58), the degree of physical suffering marks a little gap, as women would evaluate the averaged 4.21 against 3.75 in men. Figures not really surprising and yet ...

Out: female desire

 Also according to this very serious investigation, women in much better would call for several reasons. First, because they are predominantly responsible for the separation. 47% of them would therefore be responsible for the breakup, against 28% for men, the remaining 25% corresponding to a mutual initiative.

Communication and Experience

  So why are they women put an end to their love story? Primarily due to a severe lack of communication within their relationship, but not only.

  Unconsciously, women would simply have more to lose than men, because they invest much more in the relationship, according to anthropologist Craig Morris Binghamton University: "To put it simply, women are forced to s' invest much more in a relationship than a man. A brief romantic encounter may lead to nine months of pregnancy. "

  More attentive to the choice of their partner, women also would derive more experience a failure sentimental than men. If they suffer more at the time of separation, they then emerge stronger and even would retain "the lesson". For their part, men would have great difficulty in relying simply because they would put more time to realize what they have lost, "Man probably will feel the loss deeply and for a long period during which it will try to replace what he has lost, and worse, he will realize that his loss is irreplaceable. "

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