Couple He does not speak of marriage, and it frustrates me!

  Many ladies complain of this problem. They attend a man for less , or even years , but he never spoke of the problem. While some play those do not care, they suffer the deepest of them even . They also would like to live and raise a family with the man they love . So why is that the subject is so taboo? And most importantly, how to give him a little boost ?
He is not ready ?

  Ask your moms ladies , the answer is invariable. After eight months to a year , if not talking about marriage is that it never speaks . I hear you laughing by ladies . Their time is not ours. It is not enough to want to marry to go knock on the door of his parents' love. Especially the Maghreb , asked the young man to be ready financially and morally to take a family, unlike other countries where the couple will start from scratch .

  Yes , but we modern ladies , do not expect Prince Charming on a white knight. Most of us are educated , work and may participate in household expenses . In this case , what may well block ? He is not ready mentally ? Do not laugh ladies ! It is not their fault. The ladies are prepared much more for their role as housewife and mother. They are taught to do the cooking, cleaning , caring for children ... Far be it from me to defend those dear sir, but educates them to be macho and independent (Si, si! )
And they do not have this pressure What the ladies . Reached a certain age, everyone is expected to get married . Not them. In addition, they say it loud and clear. They do not age and can become dad ( almost) all ages.

  All these factors often lead your dear elected not feel ready . That does not mean he does not like you or does not intend to live with you. He simply afraid of this new life, this great responsibility . And believe it or not , men are much more afraid of failure than we do. Would affect his manhood. Result: He will talk about marriage, but in the future anything but close . In this case, you must speak in a tone joke and see how he reacts .

He is afraid of commitment?
 
  Again ; he is afraid of failure. Add to that the fear of taking a rake. Especially if you are one for whom marriage is not a priority and you laugh . He will believe you. Remember , men do not read between the lines. Do not agree with him just to be.

  This fear of commitment can be traced to the failure of the parental couple. Unconsciously, he does not want to subject his children what he himself lived . It may even be the failure of his first couple. He is afraid of commitment , and being thrown , as when he was a teenager. The ladies tend to judge quickly. Why would he commit , while there was a girl who can throw herself into his arms every street corner ? Think again , it was nice to be afraid or not ready , also would like to see his offspring and be stable.

  In any case , do not put pressure on him . Start by giving time to time. Phrases like " all my friends are married " or "Many young people came knocking on my door " not arouse any reaction. Worse, they can become aggressive and you answer, " Why do not you dark ? "Or" Congratulations, make your life ! "
If time does not produce results , tell him frankly . But choose your moment. The end of a stressful day, after a big game or in front of his friends are not appropriate times . Also choose your words. These dear gents do not want to get culprits. Emphasize that you want stability and a future with him.

  It is true that it is not easy, but you have everything to gain. At worst, you 'll set this man is not for you. At best, you raise a good response to your story!