Good question and great dilemma is not it ? , Well aware that only 19 % of people willing to maintain a relationship that pack the wing rather than be single and be alone while a large majority ( 77 %) refuse would face this situation and celibacy.
Should we doubt the honesty of the respondents ? I'll let you draw your own conclusions , but one thing is certain , however , happiness is definitely on the side of those who do not compromise and do not want to cling to a relationship unsatisfying couple. Their IRB is at 77.90 , almost 5 percentage points above that of people who prefer to maintain a relationship that pack the wing rather than face celibacy.
We find that men are more cautious than women because 23% of them continue a relationship lame couple rather than being alone while this proportion is only 14 % among women.
Transparent or a little sneaky ?
Still in the world of torque , the IRB to investigate whether the transparency and integrity proved to Pay at the values and happiness seem so. Thus, people (42%) who believe that in a couple it is essential to " say everything " displayed an IRB 79.20 while that of persons who, on the contrary, believe that we should " say that nothing could compromise the relationship " fall 70.70 .
Fortunately, they are only 6 % think so, however, that proportion reaches 9 % for men whereas this proportion is only 3% among women.
The results of the IRB we also learn that full transparency in the relationship is a concept that is aging badly , this attitude decreasing with the age of respondents . Is this the fruit of their experience, it is likely because for people 55 and older , it is more important "not to say that what really counts ."
As the saying goes , "the years teach us that the days are unaware ."
After giving birth , got his tray and a job in his field, is a stampede , "My boyfriend has become lazy. He has not returned to school , stopped working and made no household chores , she says. For two years , I tried to motivate him , I even found him a job , but without success. He would not listen , he said he had worked enough while I was pregnant. Finally, I left . "
In fact, sometimes it was nice to persist in attempting to move , there is nothing to do . " Especially if it's a personality trait , says Larmarche . But if the person becomes lazy overnight , this may simply be a bad password . We must therefore , before deciding to leave , explain what has seduced us, it was the proactive side. "
He does not understand your point should you leave ? If you realize that all you 're doing is whining against him to the point of hate , the answer is yes. Basta !
That said, this is not always the nonchalant poor who have a problem . There is also the superwomen who exaggerate . " Some women work 70 hours and train four times a week . They will scold their boyfriend because he will drink a beer and listen to the hockey with friends instead of going to the gym , laments Ms. Lamarche . If you need to have challenges and push your limits, that is correct. But you must not impose it on others . "
The good
Ms. Lamarche argues that there are always little things that bother us in the other. You should know which one can accept. And laziness , we can realize that it is beneficial. "Before, I could not rest, tells Mathilde , a young professional hyperactive . I always felt guilty if I did nothing . My boyfriend is very nonchalant. With it, nothing is dramatic. Since I frequent , I learned to relax . That's a relief . "
So if you live with a lazy, before flipping , weigh the pros and cons of the situation. Hey, why do not you do this exercise while your guy is , again , a lie ?
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